And the recipe is one only:

Make peace with yourself, lessen the expectation and understand that happiness is not having, is being.

Here are some things to seriously think about... Fist of all we have to be in peace with ourselves, calm, serene, on the inside. It is the only way to be good in the outside and, above all, to the others. I've already figured it all out...the only thing I can't understand is how to change it... This is really frustrating! Enough with the expectations! It never lead me anywhere and serve only to make me a much more insecure and fragile person. It makes me create illusions and dreams that, in the most of the times, aren't real and then I fall, again and again... So, stop with all the expectations!

Do not regret! Other huge advice. As a famous quote from Victoria Holt use to tell "Never regret. If it's good, it's wonderful. If it's bad, it's experience." So try, try it all! Remember you have both 50% chances to like it or not, of being a good or a bad thing, to change things for the best or worse... You never know, but try! Stand still seeing life goes by will not bring you anything new... So try, make mistakes and learn.
Worry about those who are good for you and forget the rest. If people are not good for you they sure don't deserve you to be good for them so just forget about those and start caring about those who matter.

I'm still not sure that everything happens for a reason but I hope I can figure it out real soon. I want to believe in it and I'm sure that, sooner or latter I'll have my answer :)

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Por que tenho de dar dez motivos concretos para não ter, quando não me conseguem dar um único motivo válido para ter?

Bem, hoje senti a necessidade de vir aqui desabafar... Tendo em conta alguns dos acontecimentos da minha vida, por vezes dou por mim a pensar nesta temática de ser mãe. Nunca quis ser mãe. Desde sempre. Nunca tive esse desejo, essa vontade e, apesar de ter uma justificativa perfeitamente válida, questionava-me se era possível haver algo mais - não sei, algum fio aqui no cérebro ligado a outra fonte sei lá - que me levou desde sempre a ter esta ideia. Até porque, nunca fui de ideias certas. Talvez devido à minha ansiedade e à necessidade incontrolável de querer sempre estar a par de tudo e controlar tudo...custa-me muito tomar qualquer decisão que seja, mesmo ponderando todos os cenários possíveis e imaginários. Quanto à justificativa mas óbvia que tenho é certo que é o facto de não gostar de crianças. Oh pah, é uma coisa...não sei explicar. Irritam-me. São chatas, inconveniente, não param quietas, são naturalmente más... Sempre que me deparo num espaço fechado com uma criança aos berro...

Super Blue Moon, 2nd Night // August 20th, 2024

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Tuesday

Hi guys! How's it going??? Sooo, guess what I bought... Eheh, that's right! The Host (Nómada in Portuguese) !!! I bought it today, right after having cut my hair... I'm so excited!!! To the next week I'll dedicate my time reading (yeah, that's because this week will be kind of "busy" xP). And Fnac offered me those two pins that you're seeing in the picture =D . And talking about hair, yes I cut it today... So, what you think? When I came home I put some hooks on it and I looked at the mirror and was just like: "OW MY GOSH! I look like Hayley Williams!!!" loool Seriously! Well, but I like it...but I will like even more when it grow up *-* Anyway, it's cool for now x3

~ Life was made for something, don't you think?

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